how when you’re friends with someone you have no idea how disliked they are.
Then when you stop being friends, every Tom, Dick & Harry are like “Man I fucking hate them, but I didn’t say anything because you were friends.”
This literally happens, every single time I stop being friends with someone, all these people who appear to be the others friends suddenly hate them.
So my only question is, why are you nice to them if you don’t like them?
Why put effort & energy into being in their lives, if you think they are a twat?
At first I’m always like “Ah man! I had no idea you didn’t like them! Good!”
Then I walk away & start to really think about just how two faced that really is & instantly feel sorry for the person who’s “friend” hates them, even though I myself no longer have warm feelings towards them.
At least if I don’t like someone, they know it.
What’s the point of pretending to be someone’s friend?
There really isn’t one.
Oh to ‘keep the peace’? You can do that without being classed as their “friend”.
It’s a joke.
Everyone is incredibly two faced.
Over the past few months I have removed myself from multiple peoples lives,
And I am the happiest I have been in a long time, I have a beautiful partner, my friends are all real, perfect, wonderful human beings who I can trust with every inch of myself & truly rely on them to be there for me when it counts & that’s a damn good reason to keep on smiling.
Smilie Happy Ana!